Wednesday, June 11, 2014

If we only knew, we would still love!

Wednesday night,

Sorry for all the typos in the previous posting.  I was crying during most of the typing and trying to keep Feisty from licking the tears off my face.  In a way, must have been hilarious, and is especially funny when I read it a few minutes ago.

Hey, who said southern belles  know grammar?

Heard a joke yesterday that really cracked me up....and y'all need to ask my bud Carla to repeat, afraid it would offend some sensitivities!!!!   Lol

News of day, all but five supporting documents are ready to be copied.  Learned tonight that a dormant account at the credit union, although still open and a little money in it, will not provide you a printable statement, online, and I need last three months,  so of I go to GFCU tomorrow.  Then to copy machine.  Yea, I am so happy.  Thought I would never reach page 56!

Another thing I discovered, my PC has kept records, medical, psychiatric, legal, etc back to at least 1971!  Thought that filing cabinet was somewhat full, now know the reason.  There was a detailed Family Questionnaire I was to complete, and the documents really helped, and anything  I could not find I noted "before my knowledge or resources".  First time, then only BMKOR,  that should at least give a government worker the thrill of the day.

PC is wanting desperately to come home!  Scary!  And said he was tired of hearing how I am afraid, so I shut up!  I am a good Cinderella,  she was always thinking and never let her situation hold her emotional spirit down.

This morning when I mentioned, as suggested by wonderful (!) social worker to remind him at least two weeks here then transfer to a long term facility ...well, let's just say it was NOT pleasant.  I smiled, the truly fake smile, said I will back, and home I came to await the water softener man,  transistor needs replacing, so I worked on exciting documents!

Yesterday he was all excited about the Land o Lakes facility, now only wants to come home, and have me to care for him.  Maybe four hours day with help...you can rest assured I will  be speaking with doctors, social worker, etc to determine best and most appropriate course of action.  No other details yet!  Know nothing can or will be done until next week.

Financially ran the numbers and know that there is enough to care for him.  Thinking of taking in ironing!  Lol, lol,,,,you know I wear old tee shirts  and yoga pants, right?

Word of advice to all, love your PC, beyond comprehension, but keep your own funds separate and separated, and DO NOT QUIT working, as I did in December, 2013 to care for him.  Well, actually I went from 2 full time jobs, Dean on Distance Learning and Quality at a university, .and a
Art time job as a CARF behavioral health national surveyor plus  private practice to twelve hours a week for the last nine years, and we have made it!  With the grace if God, and Southern Scots-Irish roots!  PC has never wanted for anything...something to be proud of. And he always had money for what he wanted!

Enough selfishness, I hope y'all have a spirit filled day now.

Mac.


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